| . | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:17 pm | #1 (permalink) | | Aaeen-e-Nau say darnaa, tarz-e-Koh'n paY aRnaa Manzil yehi KaThi'n hai, qoumoN kee zindagi maiN Join Date: Dec 31st, 1969 - 11:00 pm Posts: 1,572 | I believe there is a no distinction between Takabbur and Khud Passandi. Allah  does not like people who express Takabbur and Ghuroor. Being Proud is a different term that has the element of humility and humbleness in it... When people start saying... "We are the best" .... "We are the leaders" ..... "We are the reason for you to sustain" ... then, they unknowingly start touching the boundaries of Almighty.... No one is a torch bearer but Allah... As we all know that fame and respect/izzat is in Allah's Hands... then, it is not ok for people to ridicule others specially when others mean no harm to them Agree or disagree...? Discuss | | ShaheeN Kaa JahaaN aur! :-) PakFuse was NOT created in a single day. | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:41 pm | #2 (permalink) | | Senior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 01:33 pm Posts: 8,559 | What exactly does khud pasandi mean? | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:43 pm | #3 (permalink) | | Aaeen-e-Nau say darnaa, tarz-e-Koh'n paY aRnaa Manzil yehi KaThi'n hai, qoumoN kee zindagi maiN Join Date: Dec 31st, 1969 - 11:00 pm Posts: 1,572 | khud ko passand karnaa | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:46 pm | #4 (permalink) | | Senior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 01:33 pm Posts: 8,559 | ofcourse you have to like yourself to be confident.haina?;aq; | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:47 pm | #5 (permalink) | | Aaeen-e-Nau say darnaa, tarz-e-Koh'n paY aRnaa Manzil yehi KaThi'n hai, qoumoN kee zindagi maiN Join Date: Dec 31st, 1969 - 11:00 pm Posts: 1,572 | the word khud passandi has a bad connotation in which you like yourself so much that you degrade others.... similar to have takkabbur.... | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:50 pm | #6 (permalink) | | ~ Khavab ki Surat ~ Winner: Best Profile Competition, May 2009 Join Date: Jan 19th, 2009 - 06:08 am Posts: 1,416 | en dono meyn se kon c ap meyn he muge bes ye tello | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:53 pm | #7 (permalink) | | Senior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 01:33 pm Posts: 8,559 | ok so khud pasandi has nothing to do with self-confidence! Quote: | Being Proud is a different term that has the element of humility and humbleness in it... | what exactly does this mean? isnt proud & takabbur the same thing?;aq; | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:57 pm | #8 (permalink) | | Aaeen-e-Nau say darnaa, tarz-e-Koh'n paY aRnaa Manzil yehi KaThi'n hai, qoumoN kee zindagi maiN Join Date: Dec 31st, 1969 - 11:00 pm Posts: 1,572 | Proud in the sense of "Rashk" I know fine lines.... that's why people get confused.... MM: tum kiya karo gee maaloom kar kaY.... | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 07:58 pm | #9 (permalink) | | ~ Khavab ki Surat ~ Winner: Best Profile Competition, May 2009 Join Date: Jan 19th, 2009 - 06:08 am Posts: 1,416 | meyn elan keron geh malom ker ke | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 08:03 pm | #10 (permalink) | | Senior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 01:33 pm Posts: 8,559 | Quote: Proud in the sense of "Rashk" | meaning of th bold words plz? Quote: | I know fine lines.... that's why people get confused.... | mujhey bhi samjhain na ;smile; | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 08:14 pm | #11 (permalink) | | Aaeen-e-Nau say darnaa, tarz-e-Koh'n paY aRnaa Manzil yehi KaThi'n hai, qoumoN kee zindagi maiN Join Date: Dec 31st, 1969 - 11:00 pm Posts: 1,572 | Quote: Originally Posted by dewdrops meaning of th bold words plz? | feeling proud like your abbu ammi feel proud when you do good in exams. | | | Mar 3rd, 2009, 08:20 pm | #12 (permalink) | | Senior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 01:33 pm Posts: 8,559 | oh ok. so that one is not takabbur? PS:sorry i really dont know the difference. | | | Mar 4th, 2009, 01:05 am | #13 (permalink) | | Winner of Fuse Quiz Channel May, 2009 Join Date: Feb 14th, 2009 - 02:37 am Posts: 3,078 | when I say, "Amabel is the best", I don't mean to degrade others I mean it in a +ve way | | oyiii .....Adding YOGURT in my CAKE..... The Official Peon of PakFuse - Lafanter is my Assistant | Mar 4th, 2009, 02:07 pm | #14 (permalink) | | Junior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 02:33 pm Posts: 180 | I agree with you AQ I am a very khood-pasnad person  but i am not proud to be khood-pansand. does that make sense ? | | | Mar 5th, 2009, 09:03 pm | #15 (permalink) | | Senior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 01:33 pm Posts: 8,559 | nai you confuse me more UJ AQ explain in detail na please. | | | Mar 5th, 2009, 09:35 pm | #16 (permalink) | | Junior Member Join Date: Sep 7th, 1977 - 05:00 am Posts: 1,792 | When people proclaim about the success that they have achieved, it is encouraged to do so to a certain point. It is encouraged because of the failures that they endure, about the hardships that they suffer to achieve that success, whether the success levels surround their personal life or professional life. There is always someone guiding you, an external force. Everything happens for a reason, and I believe in it. Having a pride in yourself is something that not a lot of people can write a story on, because they either haven't reached that level of success or the level of that desired comfort. They either haven't tried or the circumstances prevented them to do so. Over-estimating the abilities and having same like-minded people as your peers puts the image of Takabbur in its own perspective. There is always an element of humbleness in individuals, some possess it more than others. | | | Mar 5th, 2009, 09:44 pm | #17 (permalink) | | Senior Member Join Date: Feb 18th, 2009 - 01:33 pm Posts: 8,559 | hmm | | | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode | Posting Rules | You may not post new threads You may not post replies You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts HTML code is Off | | | All times are GMT. The time now is 08:56 pm. | |