Circumstances Unmask the real faces?

AQ · Mar 2nd, 2009, 06:34 pm

How true is that???

I believe it is an extremely true statement.

Circumstances, even if not in your favor apparently, alteast reveal the true colors of people what they hide within themselves.

What I am saying might be a very broad generalization but I am a firm believer that in order to excel in life, you need to look for unfavorable circumstances so you can differentiate between right and wrong, friends and foes, Truth and False....

agreed or disagreed?

Your thoughts/comments/experience?

Amabel · Mar 2nd, 2009, 06:56 pm

Totally agree.
I have been going through it these days ..... some people really disappointed me even though I helped them as a friend while some totally surprised me by offering me assistance. I wasn't even close to them but they offered to help and they're trying to help.

But I think you don't always have to go through bad times to see the real faces. Sometimes, you can tell by observing someones behavior - a small action tells a lot.

Blonde Baji · Mar 2nd, 2009, 07:10 pm

I agree too.
& it hurts , really hurts.
But i've learnt to let it go .It takes time But not more than a day to heal.I've even learnt not to expect too much from anyone.
& yep as Amabel at times it only takes a small action to reveal their true faces too.

*Masoom Muskaan* · Mar 2nd, 2009, 07:58 pm

jaha seb agree hon waha zeror dal meyn koch kala hoing

Amabel · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:03 pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Masoom Muskaan*

jaha seb agree hon waha zeror dal meyn koch kala hoing

maira khiyaal hai k aap ki daal mein keerRay par gaye hain

phaink du

*Masoom Muskaan* · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:07 pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amabel

maira khiyaal hai k aap ki daal mein keerRay par gaye hain

phaink du

u ka metleb he u mere dal meyn agae ho

phenk dee

Amabel · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:14 pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Masoom Muskaan*

u ka metleb he u mere dal meyn agae ho

phenk dee

kitni achi aur shusti baatein karti ho

*Masoom Muskaan* · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:18 pm

Amabel · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:27 pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Masoom Muskaan*

flooding na karo idhar

anmeanishtraitor ney daikh liya tu dunda lay kar a jaye ga

*Masoom Muskaan* · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:35 pm

ane do ham onko use dande se maryn geh

Amabel · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:37 pm

haan aur phir is site per qabza karo lo

*Masoom Muskaan* · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:47 pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amabel

haan aur phir is site per qabza karo lo

meyn ne epne jasos lagae hoe heyn yaha khopreyn

Blonde Baji · Mar 2nd, 2009, 09:31 pm

OMG !!
u not masoom after all ;danda uthaying;

dhobi_bhai · Mar 5th, 2009, 09:43 pm

Amabel is the Best (I am supporting the tag).

Circumstances, however they may be, separate your friends too. You can learn to count on people whom you have never met. Someone comes along and gives you something which you need at that particular point in time. Circumstances arise for a reason, it makes you a stronger person from within. Everything happens for a reason and even before a particular event, you can learn to lean on shoulders whom you trust the most. Some circumstances are out of our hands, some events are designed to create a distance that is far from reach.