Blonde Baji

How should we deal with kids when they do not listen?
Do we hit them?
Punish them in some other way ?
take away their pocket money?
etc etc?

What do you think should be done?

ChaiWala

good question.. .it depends.. I love kids so this is my theory..

pyaar say samjhao..
na samjhay try to change their train of thought by telling a story, or playing with something else with them.. give them some attention
na samjhay to thori ghussay say aankahin dikkhao..
na samjhay to raise a bit of ur voice and be commanding
na samjhay to hold the kid by the arm and just look in his/her eyes very seriously.
na samjhay to use reverse-phsycology techniques (like just dont talk to them, or ignore them)
still no samjhing, then act as if u are about to hit them.. and if need, hit them but very lightly..!
if still no..
then


you got a spoiled kid..!

Blonde Baji

lol @ the end result !!!


I try everything said above except the telling story part !!!

Finally I use "abbu ko bata doongee" waali dhamkee agar na suney toh !!!

But I did Hit my lil Bro twice uptil now !!!
;sigh; & both the times uski ghaltee nahi thee..I mean thee..magar thori see & comeon he was just a kid...magar woh ghussey mei mainey aik zoordaar tamaacha laga diya tha ...
I felt soo bad after it...phir baad mei uskey liye chocolates & kya kya nahi mangwaaya tha...aur phir samjhaaya....

magar I need a completely effective way of dealing with kids..something which works with every kid !!!

ChaiWala

ok the same medication doesnt work with everyone..! so same way u have to deal with kids based on their behaviour..!

plus "Abbu ko bata doongee." hmm thats workable..! its like playing bully at home..!

I think using rishwat as a tool is not very good. as the kid when becomes older, may want to continue that..
but only sparingly or in control... tell them if they behave, they will get a reward.. like chocolates or toys or something.


or the simplest of all, leave the kids to someone else to take care of..! hehe


story telling gives u the edge.. kids like stories.. and u will also enjoy when u ask them for input..!

like a lion and a barki came face to face.. who can tell me what the bakri said to the lion..

one kid, " Bakri said.. maay maaaaay maaay"
another kid.. "Bakri said.. BHAAGOOOOOOOOOO..!!"
third kid.. "Bakri said.. tukainoe sidciue buawe"" (speaking in its own kiddie language)

lol.. this will definately help.. as long as u get a good story.. plus u will get material for some nice jokes..!